A kind gesture can reach a wound that only compassion can heal.
~ Steve Maraboli, Life, the Truth, and Being Free
May is National Mental Health Awareness Month. Join me in blogging to erase the stigma of mental illness so our loved ones can seek the help they need.
isery loves company. Especially if that company also enjoys watching episodes of Psych.
A few weeks ago, I suggested to one of my local gal pals that we needed to institute a regular Girls Night In with Fake TV Boyfriends. As we’re both WhoLock fans and Psych nerds, this turned out to be a brilliant plan.
Until the other night, when we realized that we really weren’t in our twenties anymore and apparently couldn’t handle two bottles of hard cider and talking until 3am.
But despite our cranked out sleepiness the next day, we discovered that we were better for having laughed, cried, and eaten comfort food together.
We took comfort in the fact that we were in this mental illness dance together.
The Care and Feeding of Depressed Friends
It’s tough to know what to do for your friends who are depressed. Even though I suffer from it, I’m at a loss for words sometimes.
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So here’s my Top Ten list of how to care and feed your friends who are depressed.
1. Find out what their Love Language is.
2. Send them a card or write them a note.
3. Give them a call.
5. Make a care package for them.
6. Go over for a visit.
7. Take them shopping. Not for clothes.
8. Schedule a spa date for the two of you.
9. Send them flowers.
10. Bring/cook them dinner.
The key is to listen and engage with them. Respect their level of energy. If it’s really low, stay in and watch movies and order pizza. If they’re having a good day, go get massages. Bottom line? Let them know you care and that they’re loved and not alone.
You don’t know whose life you may be saving with that unexpected phone call.
Oremus pro invicem,
Show your friend support today!